Posts Tagged ‘Parenting’

Win the War on Bedroom Clutter: Confessions of a Teen

The holidays are over and since the in-laws are coming over, YOU need to clean the house.  The only problem is that (surprise, surprise!) teens hate cleaning.  You’re tired of cleaning up after your messy teen but what are you to do? How can you get your child to clean?  And I don’t mean the “I’ll-hide-it-in-the-closet-because-no-one-would-see-it” kind of clean; no, how can you get your teen to neatly put away their things with minimal screaming contests?

Here are some quick, simple ways to get your teen to clean:

1. Closets – Let’s just face it; teens hate….no, LOATHE folding clothes.  Whatever we wear to school normally ends up in a not-so-discreet pile on the floor or stuffed in the drawers.  Hangers in closets get rid of the problem of the mess and works WITH your teen’s laziness.

2. Memo or cork boards – These are really useful if you are trying to get your teen to clear his desk.  “I can’t put these notes away; I need to see them everyday!” “Why should I put my friends’ pictures away?”  Memo boards come in all colors and designs; they can be mounted on the wall and be easily used.  Just insert the said pictures and “important” papers between the ribbons; it would be organized and your teen can see it whenever he looks up at his desk, which means LESS time rustling through notes.  Same goes for cork boards.

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Preparing for the Holidays

SnowmanDon’t worry, it may be early to some of you but if you’re like me and everyday is filled to the gills, planning for Christmas couldn’t be early enough.  This year I decided to get ready a little earlier.  We have made the ‘what I call’ mistake in the past few years to put up the Christmas lights in minus temperatures. We pull out the ladders and I send my ‘always looking for an adventure’ husband on up in the hypothermic inducing temp to unfold the magical Christmas scene I have created in my mind.  Yes, Christmas is one of my favourite times of the year.  It isn’t just Christmas day, it’s the whole season. It’s the feeling I wholeheartedly embrace.

I have finally decided at my ripe age of 40 to let go of what is supposed to be the rule and just go with the flow of how everyone close to me is feeling.  The last thing my husband and I wanted to do on Christmas day last year was to spend half of it in the kitchen, so we didn’t even make a Turkey.  We went out for walks, dreamed, talked, and skated on the lake along with the kids tobogganing down our hill with just a few injuries. (Note for me this year, bring some helmets up to the lake) Coming in, sitting in front of the fire, watching a Christmas movie and munching on goodies made for one of the best Christmas’s I can remember.  Nothing was planned, nothing was rushed, and we embraced every moment, we were so present.

My goal this year is to create a similar feeling my family enjoyed last year…….what does that mean?  I NEED TO RELAX!!!  I am an organizer with a self diagnosis of OCD. I like things to be just so and I will waste time getting it just so to the point where I have sincerely missed out on some special moments others have clearly enjoyed.  This year the leader in me will let others lead the holiday…..to a certain point.

On a practical note, in addition to using More Time Moms Christmas Countdown checklist, I have decided to ask myself the questions I need answers to in order to have as much of a special stressed free holiday as possible.

Holiday Time Management

Before I plan the holiday activities, I need to check my Family Organizer.  Are children going to be involved in exams during the season or are the exams after the holiday? How about the kids activities around Christmas i.e. parties, concerts and plays.  What about their regular sport activities?  Do we have to go to all the events because I would like to do what we used to do a few years ago and drive around in pyjamas, yes pyjamas drinking hot chocolate and looking at all the wonderful Christmas lights!

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Top 10 Tips To Prepare for Final Exams and Midterms

Final exams are approaching, and some of you might be wondering how to prepare. If you did well on your mid-term tests, then repeat what you did to prepare for them. Finals aren’t a lot different from mid-terms – they simply tend to cover more material, and are longer, some running up to three hours, versus the typical hour or hour and a half mid-term.

The extra volume of material and length of the exam can be tough on some students, but there are things you can do to prepare. Here is my top ten:
1. Get a good night’s sleep before the exam.
2. An absolute must if you can: get prior years’ exams and, with a small group of classmates, prepare point form sample answers to share among yourselves.
3. Review your notes to see all the items the professor indicated were important. In some cases, s/he might even have hinted at exam topics.

For the rest of the tips, view Top 10 Tips To Prepare for Final Exams and Midterms [Guest Post]

My Child is Sick: Does He Have H1N1?

The other day my youngest came home from school with cold-like symptoms.  Of course, I instantly wondered was this the beginning of the H1N1 attack on my home turf or was this just a common cold.  I haven’t even had the chance to take a stand on whether or not, I should vaccinate my kids.  I kept him home from school for a few days. After wading through a pile of information on the H1N1, I was able to conclude that he didn’t have H1N1 based on the following information published from the University of Calgary.  It is the clearest explanation of exactly what constitutes symptoms of H1N1.

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Laundry Tips for Kids

clean_laundryMy husband and I have been renovating our house for 4 and a half years and our most recent project is the main bathroom.  We have gutted the room and borrowed space so now we have a large main bathroom, but in the process we lost our laundry chute.  It was a great old laundry chute that went right from the bathroom to a holding area in the laundry room.  It was the catchall for everyone’s laundry, clothes they didn’t want to put away, toys and lost neighborhood children.  Every week (almost) we would do heaps of laundry and get the kids involved in separating, folding and putting away laundry. We carefully reviewed the separation of whites and colours, hot and cold, empty pockets etc.  It was a great and often painstaking group effort.

What I have discovered in the elimination of the laundry chute is a huge reduction in my workload, less nagging (me), less groaning and complaining (kids and hubby) and a sense of real relief.

Here’s what we did:

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Halloween: Be Creative and Resourceful!

It’s that time of year again, where the kids are planning their costumes and already  making requests to have friends accompany us on our Trick or Treating adventures.  I have developed a love/hate relationship with this holiday that is so beloved by the kids.

When our oldest son Jacob was one, my husband came home from work on Halloween night to proclaim that he was ready to partake in the festivities and bring Jake around the neighborhood to visit and enjoy his first foray into Trick or Treating.  Secretly, I was horrified that my baby, who was still breast-feeding and just precariously walking, would be exposed to the Halloween horrors of candy.  “Where’s his costume?” he said.

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Supporting Your Kids In Sports

Sports teams and other activity groups depend largely on the support of parent volunteers.  Besides acting as instructors and supervisors, parents can be team managers, coordinators, fundraisers, registration, event, promotion and communications volunteers.  In our 14 years of parenting of 3 kids in a multitude of sports, my husband and I have filled many of these roles at various times.  Most of these functions require little if any expertise in the sport or activity itself.  Unfortunately, parents can get caught up in trying to help and end up doing more harm than good. The following may help:

Supporting Your Child

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Every Family Needs Command Central.

It’s fall and with that comes the onslaught of kids sports, school events, music and meetings for work and all the volunteer commitments that parents take on for the sake of their children.  It brings to the forefront that every home needs a place to keep track of the family’s comings and goings, appointments, messages, etc.  If you keep your More Time Moms Family Organizer on your bulletin board along with the following items, you will have an instant communication station. Bonus! Everyone know where to be when and now you will know where to find a pen when you need one.

Command Central Communications System:

  • More Time Moms Family Organizer
  • Bulletin board, pushpins
  • Pens & pencils & higlighters ( In our family, every family member has a different colour.)
  • Erasers
  • Paper
  • Writing surface closeby
  • Trash container
  • Scissors
  • Post-It Notes
  • Telephone
  • Phonebooks

Get Organized for University This Year.

Many students on the doorstep to university wonder if they have the intellectual horsepower to succeed in first year. While having great academic skills certainly helps, the reality is that first year students struggle more with coping in a new and different environment than they do with lack of brainpower. This, in itself, is a valuable lesson learned – people with a wide range of intellectual ability can succeed, but no matter how capable you are, you must be organized and work smart.

The main reason the transition can be a challenge is that in addition to managing an academic workload – often one that is more demanding than in high school – some students find themselves solely responsible for the first time in their lives for daily life tasks like finances, health care, laundry and grocery shopping. If they aren’t prepared, this can be daunting or even worse – it can amount to an unwelcome drain on their time when they can afford it least. Distractions from academic work can put a student discouragingly behind in just a few short weeks. How can students reduce the risk of this happening? The easiest thing to do is to spend some time in August beefing up a few simple life skills. (more…)

Don’t hate me because I’m ready for Back-to-School: Confessions of a professional organizer.

It is now the 1st week of August and I am sort of gloating when I write; I have most of my ‘Back-To-School’ shopping done!  Please don’t hate me, I did say most of it, not all!  Let’s not forget I still have to label everything and move on to the children’s possible clothing needs.  I have to evaluate what the children will be doing as far as extracurricular activities, sports, music and plan the driving schedule, possible car pool scenarios, etc.  What about doctors appointments, dental, eye appointments and whatever else I’ll try and cram in before school starts back up again.

I am a mom of 4 kids, Jonathan 19, Gregory 16, Rachelle 9 and Max 8.  My husband François is on the road quite often for work leaving me to manage the household.  A lot of pressure is on me not just because I have 4 children, husband, work in and out of the home, but because by trade I am a professional organizer!  I am expected to be perfect!  Guess what?….far from it. I have finally come to accept that it is ok to not be perfect….well sort of.  Can any mom, whether you are at home or at the office relate?  We are expected to be extraordinary multi-taskers and we try and keep trying until we find ourselves worn out, exhausted and forgetting to even look after ourselves. We beg for maids and nannies to drop out of the sky and save us.  Not going to happen! So now we have to come up with some ideas to make life a little simpler, drop half of our to do lists (I’ll have a hard time with that one) and focus on enjoying time with our families more (that will be an easy thing to do).

Now that you know a little bit about me and my imperfections, here are a few tips to help us all get ready for the onslaught of September.

Back-To-School Tips From A Professional Organizer:

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