Posts Tagged ‘Parenting’

Laundry Tips for Kids

clean_laundryMy husband and I have been renovating our house for 4 and a half years and our most recent project is the main bathroom.  We have gutted the room and borrowed space so now we have a large main bathroom, but in the process we lost our laundry chute.  It was a great old laundry chute that went right from the bathroom to a holding area in the laundry room.  It was the catchall for everyone’s laundry, clothes they didn’t want to put away, toys and lost neighborhood children.  Every week (almost) we would do heaps of laundry and get the kids involved in separating, folding and putting away laundry. We carefully reviewed the separation of whites and colours, hot and cold, empty pockets etc.  It was a great and often painstaking group effort.

What I have discovered in the elimination of the laundry chute is a huge reduction in my workload, less nagging (me), less groaning and complaining (kids and hubby) and a sense of real relief.

Here’s what we did:

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Halloween: Be Creative and Resourceful!

It’s that time of year again, where the kids are planning their costumes and already  making requests to have friends accompany us on our Trick or Treating adventures.  I have developed a love/hate relationship with this holiday that is so beloved by the kids.

When our oldest son Jacob was one, my husband came home from work on Halloween night to proclaim that he was ready to partake in the festivities and bring Jake around the neighborhood to visit and enjoy his first foray into Trick or Treating.  Secretly, I was horrified that my baby, who was still breast-feeding and just precariously walking, would be exposed to the Halloween horrors of candy.  “Where’s his costume?” he said.

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Supporting Your Kids In Sports

Sports teams and other activity groups depend largely on the support of parent volunteers.  Besides acting as instructors and supervisors, parents can be team managers, coordinators, fundraisers, registration, event, promotion and communications volunteers.  In our 14 years of parenting of 3 kids in a multitude of sports, my husband and I have filled many of these roles at various times.  Most of these functions require little if any expertise in the sport or activity itself.  Unfortunately, parents can get caught up in trying to help and end up doing more harm than good. The following may help:

Supporting Your Child

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Every Family Needs Command Central.

It’s fall and with that comes the onslaught of kids sports, school events, music and meetings for work and all the volunteer commitments that parents take on for the sake of their children.  It brings to the forefront that every home needs a place to keep track of the family’s comings and goings, appointments, messages, etc.  If you keep your More Time Moms Family Organizer on your bulletin board along with the following items, you will have an instant communication station. Bonus! Everyone know where to be when and now you will know where to find a pen when you need one.

Command Central Communications System:

  • More Time Moms Family Organizer
  • Bulletin board, pushpins
  • Pens & pencils & higlighters ( In our family, every family member has a different colour.)
  • Erasers
  • Paper
  • Writing surface closeby
  • Trash container
  • Scissors
  • Post-It Notes
  • Telephone
  • Phonebooks

Get Organized for University This Year.

Many students on the doorstep to university wonder if they have the intellectual horsepower to succeed in first year. While having great academic skills certainly helps, the reality is that first year students struggle more with coping in a new and different environment than they do with lack of brainpower. This, in itself, is a valuable lesson learned – people with a wide range of intellectual ability can succeed, but no matter how capable you are, you must be organized and work smart.

The main reason the transition can be a challenge is that in addition to managing an academic workload – often one that is more demanding than in high school – some students find themselves solely responsible for the first time in their lives for daily life tasks like finances, health care, laundry and grocery shopping. If they aren’t prepared, this can be daunting or even worse – it can amount to an unwelcome drain on their time when they can afford it least. Distractions from academic work can put a student discouragingly behind in just a few short weeks. How can students reduce the risk of this happening? The easiest thing to do is to spend some time in August beefing up a few simple life skills. (more…)

Don’t hate me because I’m ready for Back-to-School: Confessions of a professional organizer.

It is now the 1st week of August and I am sort of gloating when I write; I have most of my ‘Back-To-School’ shopping done!  Please don’t hate me, I did say most of it, not all!  Let’s not forget I still have to label everything and move on to the children’s possible clothing needs.  I have to evaluate what the children will be doing as far as extracurricular activities, sports, music and plan the driving schedule, possible car pool scenarios, etc.  What about doctors appointments, dental, eye appointments and whatever else I’ll try and cram in before school starts back up again.

I am a mom of 4 kids, Jonathan 19, Gregory 16, Rachelle 9 and Max 8.  My husband François is on the road quite often for work leaving me to manage the household.  A lot of pressure is on me not just because I have 4 children, husband, work in and out of the home, but because by trade I am a professional organizer!  I am expected to be perfect!  Guess what?….far from it. I have finally come to accept that it is ok to not be perfect….well sort of.  Can any mom, whether you are at home or at the office relate?  We are expected to be extraordinary multi-taskers and we try and keep trying until we find ourselves worn out, exhausted and forgetting to even look after ourselves. We beg for maids and nannies to drop out of the sky and save us.  Not going to happen! So now we have to come up with some ideas to make life a little simpler, drop half of our to do lists (I’ll have a hard time with that one) and focus on enjoying time with our families more (that will be an easy thing to do).

Now that you know a little bit about me and my imperfections, here are a few tips to help us all get ready for the onslaught of September.

Back-To-School Tips From A Professional Organizer:

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It’s a Staycation for us this year!

The home-based vacation — aka “staycation” — can be a great alternative to an expensive trip, assuming you plan it well and really treat it as a true vacation. This is our year for it with impending braces for our oldest, gas prices increasing and air travel costs rising. The falling dollar makes even cross-border travel less appealing.

The big savings from a Staycation are transportation costs and lodging, but there are others.

Even if you want to eat out every day, you can limit that to one meal and still save lots on the food budget. We like to eat out for brunch, it is often great value at many good restaurants and you usually eat so much that it carries you through to dinner.

The real obstacle is psychological. We have been conditioned to think a vacation means travel and expensive vacations help us keep up with the neighbors. Don’t get caught up in that and finish this summer without a pile of vacation debt, you’ll have peace of mind and a head start on great trip — next year.

The following staycation strategies can help make your Staycation a truly  relaxing break rather than a wasted week. (more…)

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